What’s the deal? Why are people showing that first date interest, but then stopping short at putting a ring on it?
I don’t mean that you’re un-dateable or un-loveable. You know you’re a catch. I know you’re a catch. But being coy and shy is an approach that only delivers in 80s teen romantic comedies. (Sorry, Molly Ringwald, you’re still a legend!)
Here are my favorite, fool-proof ways of turning that first flush of interest into something more.
1. Ask Them To Slide Into Your DMs
Make it explicit that you want people to DM you with Qs and requests to connect. Post up an invite on your profile. Decorate your Stories with an engaging sticker. Add a CTA in the body copy of your posts. Write it in the sky. Whatever works for your brand. Just put it out there. Because if you don’t ask…the answer is already “nah.”
(Pro Tip: make sure your DMs are open! Look, there WILL be spam. SO MUCH SPAM. But it’s worth sifting through that to find the gems.)
2. Invite Them to Join Your Email List
C’mon, life’s too short to be shy about your awesomeness! If you’ve got a killer newsletter, shout it out! Post about it. Don’t just tell them that it exists, share with them what they missed last week and invite them to not miss out on the next one by joining now. Add a clickable or swipeable link. And let your audience know what good stuff they’ll be getting (and how often) when they sign up. Because your emails are gold, right? RIGHT?
3. Create an AMAZEBALLS lead magnet
Anyway, if you’re not hip to the slang, a “lead magnet” is digital marketer speak for the gotta-have-it freebie that you’re going to give away in exchange for someone’s contact details. They could look something like this, this, or even this.
Lead magnets could also be free consults, spiffy downloadables, or a handy-dandy ebooks – whatever you’ve got that shows off what you do and intrigues them to want more. Don’t give away everything you’ve got (hey, we’ve all gotta eat), but make it high-value enough that your fans are good with signing away their email addy in exchange for it. Think: Share the “what” not the “how.”
(Pssst – make sure that your sales funnel doesn’t just end with your lead magnet. It should just be the first in your breadcrumb trail leading to your main products or services.)
(Pro Tip: make sure your DMs are open! Look, there WILL be spam. SO MUCH SPAM. But it’s worth sifting through that to find the gems.)
4. Make “Always Be Converting” Your Mantra
Give these four simple tips a shot, and report back to me with any changes you see in your conversion rates. And for more tips on converting like a boss, follow me on social, or sign up for our weekly SNAPshot email. (see? I told you it works!)